Monday, January 17, 2011
Dating is a mere mind game.
Yes a date. Most people who know me would be all like "Tim? A date? Nawww... really??? who was he?" In reality though, I go on dates every so often. However, I find Dating quiet pointless because through proper body posture and the right rephrasing of your words, you can convince anyone, anything.
I once read these books, by a guy named Erik von Markovik (aka. Mystery), called The Mystery Method and The Pick-Up Artist. Now these books, I don't follow like a bible, but they are an interesting read and bring a great point. People want people to like them, I don't care who you are but you want someone to like you. I'm not going to get into advertising with this so I will just tell my story of what happened tonight and get to the point.
Earlier tonight I was texting a friend. We were on the topic of how I dyed my hair brunette (a rather yucky shade xD), and She asked to see my hair. That is when I said that we should to go to the movies, she of course agreed and looked up the theater times. She then said her mom doesn't like her going alone, and that she would need to bring a mutual friend. I sent her a message that is very bland and doesn't answer anything (like emoticons I specifically use O.o and :P the most), basically making her drive more information into the conversation. My truck only fits two people so I laid sent her that nonchalantly while stating some other necessary information.
(ProTip: Only pay if it's a date.)
When I pulled up at her house, I knocked on the door and Got invited in, I made a few throw-away conversation starters about the amount of cats in the neighborhood and some comments on a few mutual friends. We then headed to the movies. The movie theater is kind of a dead zone where body posture is critical. Because speech is gimped during the scenes, you must have good kinetic control. What I'm saying is try to get her to come to you, don't be all over her. I actually prefer to wait until the end of the movie to do this. It's very easy to do this during the conclusion when all the action, violence, ect. ends and you have that peaceful effect. (Try and leave the movie holding hands.)
After the movie we went to my truck and talked for a good 4 hours. The key part was during this conversation, the part many people have trouble with. This is where I finalized my decision that people would do what they say they wouldn't, if you display the right attributes. After we conversed over many subjects including some that you would find as a boner kill, we found ourselves making out. She then did the whole dramatic pretending shes sad but really she just is fighting conflicting emotions, thing, where she puts her hands over her face. I asked her hat was a matter, and she said that she has a boyfriend and apologized about a thousand times. Its fine I believe in polygamy. And it really isn't a big deal, it was just a kiss. That sort of thing. Just calm her down and assure her its okay. When this happens, back away like she killed your boner, but keep the kinetic energy flowing. She will subconsciously realize that she disrupted the friendship between you and that will make her want you more. She will then pass back kinetic energy, like... she will touch you in some way. the you need to get close to her again. I got closer to her, and even after she had just told me that she had a boyfriend and she didn't think it was right, we started making out again. then my phone rang... actually it vibrated.... in a pleasureful area for her. It made me lol, but killed the moment.
I didn't want to bang her, nor do I now. I just realized what I've been doing wrong in all my past relationships. Not only did I attempt to blog about it and explain how it works to the rest of the world, but I butchered it. The key is to display affection, but keep them on the fritz. Don't be a dick, or sexist, This actually works on everyone, and can be adapted for everything. Its human psychology. People read these books and don't get the picture though. I read them several years ago, and think about them often, but it wasn't until now that I understand the jist of what Mystery was describing.
Took a pill for my chronic migraines, took a pill for my insomnia. I will sleep now.
Tomorrow, I will address my theories of Insomnia, if I remember and don't have a lazy fit.
[Consider this topic Butchered]
Posted by Barri at 1:05 AM